Understand each others emotional needs

On this weeks relationship vitamin...I spoke of step 3 in affair recovery:

MEETING EACH OTHERS EMOTIONAL NEEDS

To here me ramble on :) go to http://youtu.be/5YPNT5fbkT0


What is an emotional need? It is a craving that, when satisfied, leaves you with a feeling of happiness and contentment, and, when unsatisfied, leaves you with a feeling of unhappiness and frustration.

Everyone is unique. While men on average pick a particular set of five emotional needs as their most important and women on average pick another set of five, any given man or woman can and do pick various combinations of the ten. So even though I know the most important emotional needs of the average man and woman, I don't know the emotional needs of any particular husband or wife.

The Infidelity Coach says these are the top Emotional Needs needs of her clients:

 Affection
 Sexual
 Conversation
 Recreational Companionship
 Honesty and Openness
 Physical Attractiveness
 Respect
 Domestic Support
 Encouragement
 Admiration

So what is your homework tonight?

Firstly, both you and your partner need to take the time and effort to take ACTION.
Then, with each of these needs - rank from 1 (not important) to 5 (extremely important)

how important is this need to you
how does your partner go in meeting this need
then list your top 5 needs in order
compare and discuss
Create a plan of what you are going to change to make each other happier
That's EASY right!

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This is YOUR time!

Savannah


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